Spend some time thinking and reflecting on the following two questions. Then answer these thought-provoking questions in as much detail as possible. Write in full sentences, using accurate spelling and punctuation. You should aim for 100+ words for each answer.
Q1 If your parents were not there to support you, what would happen to your family? Who might look after you? What might your role be in helping your family to cope with the situation? Which family member do you think would take the key role in this scenario?
Q2 Do you think it is fair for children to be judged by what their parents or siblings (brothers or sisters) have done? Why or why not? Has this ever happened to you? Describe one of these situations and how you felt about it. If it has not ever happened to you, think about and describe a situation where this could occur and how the person would feel and react.
Q1. If my parents where not there to support me, a number of outcomes could come from it. I would be far more independent, and far more self sufficient. I think my sister would take charge with us all, but I would want to take care for myself. My sister, brother, and I would also be much closer than we are now.
I dont know if I would have a specific role, per say. But I do know I’d help out a hole lot more.
Q2. I dont think its fair, cause although they say your parents are the ones bringing you up, so some of their characteristics you will inherit. Does not exactly mean that you will become like them, or do the bad things that they do.
August 15, 2008 @ 11:23 amThe child should be judged for how the child acts, not how their siblings or parents act.
I cant think of a situtation where it has happened to me, but i can think of situations when I have made mistakes, and because of that my sister and brother. and my parents, have been judged.
if my parenst werent here to support me, me and my brothers were most likely live with my aunty. my role in the family would obviously be to help around alot, and look after my younger brother, like picking him up from school, taking him his mates house and stuff.
August 15, 2008 @ 11:26 ami think its not fair how you can be judged for somehting your family has or is doing. you and your m um or you and youor dad are 2 different people, why should we get judged for something someone else has done? no it has never happend to me. a situation like this would be like a girl i know. her mum is a junky, and her dad left them. her older brother is also a junky and its only her and her younger sister. she basically raises her little sister all by herself. shes only young herself so it would be extremly hard for her. she doesnt go to school because shes has to stay home and look afetr her sister, and she never has any money. people always referr to her as a junky too. but i know she is actually a really nive kid. i would hate that because she getting critorsized for something someone has done.
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Q1.
August 15, 2008 @ 11:28 amIf my parents weren’t there to support me i would probably have to live with my sister if not i would probably go and live with my aunty. my role would have to be helping aorund the house alot more and looking after my little niece if my sister and her boyfriend went out.b if i lived with my aunty i would have to help around the house and help her with looking after her grandchildren when my aunty would have to look after them. well the family member to take the key role would have to be my sister wherever i went to live because she would have to be always ringing up to check on how i would be going if i lived at my aunty’s and she would have to take the key role because she is the eldest out of us two.
Part 1: If my parents werent there to support me, i would go to my closest friends that i can trust and rely on. My aunty would probaly look after me if my parents kicked me out of the house or soemthing. I think my sister Polly would try to make things better again, since she is the oldest out of all of us. If not my sister, then i guess i would try and do something about it to get our family back together.
August 15, 2008 @ 11:28 amPart 2: Do i think its far if a child is judged by wat their parents or siblings have done?
No i dont, people are different. Some know better than others, and some know that is right and wrong. This situation has never happened to me. but.. In most cases kids become something like their parents/siblings. Because they’re family. But if has parents that did stupid things, i would know not to do it, and i would say something about it. And try to help them, I would be the GOOD ONE
if my family was not there for me i think my family would have no means of communication and i may try to start communication. if this all happened i think my auntie of Grandmother would look after me
i think its wrong to be judged by what your family has done because no one is the same and if on person in the family has done something so bad no one would even talk to that single person which will lead them to feel unwanted and left out.
August 15, 2008 @ 11:37 amQuestion 1: If my parents where not there to support me i dont no who would be able to look after me. my role would probly be helping my stupid brother because he dosent no how to do anything and he is too lazy to do everything. and i would have to take care of everything
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August 15, 2008 @ 11:39 amQ1. if you had no support from your parents then i would have to take care of my sisters and like get a job and like get all the food and stuff like that and wouldnt be easy cause i got school and footy and it would be hard to fit work into this timetable or we could go live with another famioly member who has a good job well paid and ability to take care of us.
Q2.No i dont think any one should judge there parents or family by what they have done some people may have better jobs or get more money but in the end we are all the same with different jobs and if you were to get judge by other people then that could lead to low self-esteem and it could even lead to depression so yer
August 15, 2008 @ 11:41 amQ1. If my parents couldn’t support me my brothers would take care of me if i need support. If my parents are upset with something I would try to help out as much as I can and if I can’t my brothers would take responsibility.
August 15, 2008 @ 11:42 amQ2.
I don’t think it’s fair to judge a child on what their parents have done, something like that as never happened to me before but for example if people didn’t like me because my father is a murderer I would think it’s wrong to judge me for something my father did
If my mum wasn’t there to support me, I would feel like crapp. Because my mum is all I have and she means the world to me and I would hate if my mother didn’t have any support in me, my family might talk to mum and explain she is doing the wrong thing… Although my mum migt already know that. We have our arguments and then we get over it we forgive but we don’t ever forget.
Who might look after me, well I’m hopeing my grandparents or my real dad, or even my step dad, but i don’t really get along with him that much… I would love to live with my aunty…. she’s madddddd.
To help my family through the situation, I would’nt talk about it and just be a good little girl.
My grandparents or my aunty… hopefully my aunty, because my grandparents don’t listen to nice music.
there sad… not listening to RnB.
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August 15, 2008 @ 11:43 amIf my parents were not thereto support me our whole family would spread appart and the oldest person would look after me.If i would get more along with my brothers and sister our family would come more closer and getting along more. I’m not sure about the spercific role but i would help out more.
Q2.I do not think it is fair and no it has not happened to me.If it happened to someone they would feel like sad because they would get the blaim.
August 15, 2008 @ 11:43 amQ2.
August 15, 2008 @ 11:44 ami think it’s not fair for children to be judged if there parents or siblings have doen something wrong because the parent or sibling is the person that has done the wrong and they are the person that should be getting judged not there family member that hasn’t done anything worng. i think if i was to be judged by a friend or person for something that my parents or siblings did i wouldn’t be happy and i can also think of something if i did worng my parents would probably be judged because they brought me up but it would be my own fault cause i made the mistake.
1)if my perents were not here to support me i would probably find a job and earn money to support my schooling and i’ll try my best in school so that in the future i could get a better job and would be able to help support my family or i could drop out of school, find a job and try support my family as well as myself. my grandmother would probably look after me because when i was young she raised me until my grandpa died i parents wanted me back because they didn’t want her to stress over looking after me. a role that i would to play is probably the money provider to help mum and dad support the family. the family member that would propbably have the key role in this scenario is probably me because im the one who is not supported and i am trying to help my parents by earning money and giving it to them so that they could raise the kids and pay bills and all that kind of stuff.
2)i think that it is not fair to judge children because of what their parents or siblings may have did because just because they are related it does not mean that they have the same personality and behaviour.this has happen to me. when my brother use to come to chandler he was very naughty. In my science class (the teacher may remain anonamous) would always pick on me like as if i always did something wrong when i was just doing what the others are doing and then one day i went to get the materials for the prac that we were going to do the teacher said to me “don’t do anything stupid Licinda, i know what you and your brother are like” i was really upset when i heard that because i reckon that i am no way near as naughty or stupid or bad behaving as my brother and i’m not trying to put my brother down but if you really get to know the real me i am pretty sure that you would disagree with what the teacher had said to me. i really wanted to talked them about this situation but i didn;t because i was just to hurt to think about it so what i did was just cocentrate on the work and ignore the way the teacher knew me as.
August 15, 2008 @ 11:44 amQ1. If my parents were not here to support me i would not know wat to do. Me and ma bro would be in foster care and we would be very sad and we would cry ourselves to sleep every day. Or we would live at my grandmas house so she could look after her. I would have to work and make the money for all of us to survive. My grandma would defintiely take in the role of looking after me or otherwise my aunty cause they live close to me abut its easier for ma grandmas cause she has no small children so it could be easier for her and not my aunty cause ma aunty has kids.:)And i have a good uncle hes greek but really cool.:)
Q.2 I reckon it is the parents fault and that this will never happen to me. If this happened to me i would be shit scared as.And i would not feel happy bout it.This would mostly occur at home at that i would react really sad and pissed off to both of my parents or the one that started it.If one of ma parents started it i would get seriously angry at that parent for starting it and i would say get the hell out of my life.:)
Cause it would make it sooo easier for me and just live with my grandma. Shes ok with music as long as its just not metal rock punk crap.
k Bye miss
August 15, 2008 @ 11:45 amQ1
August 15, 2008 @ 11:47 ami already have no parentsand the only thing that happened to my family is that my brother was brain washed by the devil (my mother) and we moved to our grandparents and my role in this evil play of life was the janater to come and pick up the pieces and to look out for my brothers
Q2
im always judged for what my brothers do like if they fight i get yelled at because i didnt stop it and i dont even no why sorry but i cant realy answer this question
Question 2: i dont think it would be fair because my brother is liek bad and im like sooo opposite to him annnd yeaah
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August 15, 2008 @ 11:50 amQ1my parents are not there to support me anyway so um ——- i think hwo you are living with wouid step up (they dont) my family might be better with no mum or dad just me and my sisters but no one would be in controll so that would suck
August 19, 2008 @ 6:57 pmi wrote this emo list 4 Q2 but my psp stuffed up so my short anser i am the embarsing person in the family my parents screwed me=up they did good and bad stuff with there lives but i dont want to be like them
August 19, 2008 @ 7:26 pmQ1 If my parents were not here to support me, i guess that my sister and I would probably be cared for by my grandparents or aunty and uncle.
I suppose i would have to get a job although i’m going to try get one soon.
I’m not sure if i would play the *key* role.
Q2 No i don’t think its fair for someone to be blamed for what thier siblings or parents have done, only if they have taken part in it thmselfs. This has not happened to me personally but i suppose if it did i would be really angry if people judged me by what others have done.
August 20, 2008 @ 10:10 am1.If my parents were not there to support me i wouldnt really mind i mean i’m not the only one in my family there is my little brother and my little sister, i really only get my support through my sport because thats all i ask for. I dont really nedd it for my life but if i did they would give it. so if they gave me no support it wouldnt bother me i like it this way. i dont think to much would happen to my family because my little brother and sister are pretty close so if we had no support i would take the role of looking after my little brother.
and sister, the person that would take the role of lokking after us all would probaly be my nanny and grandad.
2. I dont think that i should get judged on what another one of my family members has done this would make me crack the craps. this has not happened to me but i have seen it happen to some one else though it was at primary school her parents were drugies and every one called her poor and bagged the absolute crap out of her.
August 20, 2008 @ 10:33 amQ1 If your parents were not there to support you, what would happen to your family? Who might look after you? What might your role be in helping your family to cope with the situation? Which family member do you think would take the key role in this scenario?
If my parents were not there to support me i think my family would either fall apart and be all over the place in so much struggle or me and my brothers would get closer together, rely on each other more, be more responsible and i think my oldest brothers hiep, joseph and phat would take over the familys main roles and concerns. Maybe my aunties and my uncles might help out my family too.
August 21, 2008 @ 3:05 pmQ1my parents are not there to suport me anyway i take care of my self i guss my sisters suport me when they can i dont care that much Q2 no way judgeing the child by the siblings actions is fair why cuz its stupid
yes it has happend to me my mum is crazy so they think im crazy me crazy funny :p cant think by
August 21, 2008 @ 10:30 pm